Standing at the altar, we all had a picture of what our marriage would look like. The problem is this picture of marriage results in expectations that we unload on our spouse. The weight of these expectations will rob your marriage of love and joy. As a spouse you never feel like you measure up and you never feel like you are good enough.
So what are you to do with your expectations? You can't deny them, because most expectations started out as God-given desires. You must learn to transform your expectations and look to God if you are to experience marriage as it was designed.